Valentine’s Day somehow gets trickier for me with every passing year.
Christmas? I can skate by with a White Elephant gift and a few silly stocking stuffers.
Birthdays are easy enough - good food, good company, maybe a celebratory drink.
But Valentine’s Day is different. What do you give your spouse to show how much you love and appreciate them - without defaulting to the predictable flowers and chocolate?
That question got me thinking: what actually makes a good Valentine’s Day gift for couples, especially those who’ve been together a long time? And what makes some gifts better than others?
The answer doesn’t have to be complicated. Thoughtful, everyday items (like a matching set of glasses) make great Valentine’s Day gifts because they’re both romantic and practical. Glassware sets can be used year-round, not just on February 14th. And unlike flowers… they won’t wilt & make you sad when it’s time to throw them away.
If you’re looking for a Valentine’s Day gift that feels intentional, lasts longer than a week, and fits easily into everyday life, a coordinated set of glasses is a simple place to start. Below, I’ve rounded up a few of my favorite glass sets made for sharing - whether that’s date night, quiet evenings in, or a toast to many more years together.
What do you get your partner when you already live together?
If you already live together, look for Valentine’s Day gifts that upgrade your shared space. Sets of glasses are a simple way to elevate everyday routines - whether that’s wine nights, cocktails, or just unwinding together after work.
If you have a shared hobby or interest, look for a mix & match set of a same-but-different gifts, so each person gets something that speaks directly to them.
Is he the rooster to your hen? Find your perfect mismatched set here
Are matching glasses a good Valentine’s Day gift?
Yes! Matching glasses are a popular Valentine’s Day gift for couples because they symbolize togetherness (without being overly cheesy). A coordinated glass set feels intentional, stylish, and perfect for date nights at home. Choose something that is meaningful to you both.
A gift that calls back to an era of your relationship will always be meaningful for you both. Where did you meet? Buy your first house together? Build a family together? Getting a glassware set with a location personal to you and your relationship is a beautiful way to commemorate milestones.
If you're interested in glassware with states, flags, or coordinates, you can get your inspirational juices flowing here.
Are glassware sets a good gift for couples who don’t drink alcohol?
Absolutely. Many couples use glassware for mocktails, sparkling water, iced tea, or even desserts. A beautiful set of glasses isn’t about alcohol - it’s about having something special to enjoy together.
When you share a vacation or experience that was profound to you both, anything that reminds you of it will be cherished. If you & your love ever went on an African safari, I love these elephant & giraffe glasses.
What makes a Valentine’s Day gift feel more meaningful?
Valentine’s Day gifts feel more meaningful when they’re personal and lasting. A set of glasses can become part of a couple’s everyday rituals, from celebrations to quiet nights in, making the gift feel thoughtful long after the holiday passes.
The designs on engraved glassware are permanent, so they will last as long as your love.
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about grand gestures. Sometimes the most meaningful gifts are the ones that quietly show up in everyday moments - shared drinks, shared stories, shared life. A gift that’s made to last is a reminder that love isn’t just something you celebrate once a year, but something you choose, again and again.
